Get Out From Behind Your Computer

by Ben Yoskovitz

SOBCon07 is finished. But I doubt there’s many that walked away without a ton of inspiration, practical guidance, friendships and an appreciation for the people that put it all together.

I played a small role, helping with the SOBCon website and speaking, but that’s nothing compared to what folks like Terry Starbucker, Chris Cree and Liz Strauss put into the event. And don’t forget Chris’s wife Lisa, event planner extraordinaire. Mike Sansone was integral as well, along with a bunch of others that planned and executed an amazing event.

Oh, and Christine Kane was great. Wonderful musician, entertaining, funny…

I’ve struggled with writing this post for 2 days. Firstly, there are many great reviews already by the likes of Jason Alba, Tony Clark, Hannah Steen , Easton Ellsworth, Phil Gerbyshak, Mark Goodyear and Jesse Petersen.

And secondly, what did I learn that I really wanted to share?

I learned a ton, and many things I was planning to write about here started to become even more crystal clear over the SOBCon weekend. But most importantly, I recognized how important it is for all of us to get out from behind our computers, walk away from the screens and meet one another.

As much as we can build relationships online, there’s nothing that beats face-to-face connections.

For people who “don’t get the blogging thing” they’re missing out on tons of amazing relationships that can be built online, without meeting people directly. But for those of us that do so much connecting online, being given the chance to interact in-person with people is critical. And that’s what SOBCon brought us.

I didn’t meet everyone there. A few people pointed out that more networking/connecting time is needed, and I wholly agree. I know the organizers do as well. But the chances I did get to speak face-to-face with people were great. Everyone stood out for me as stellar. Everyone stood out as a friend (except for one guy yawning in the front while I was presenting; I won’t mention names!)

So I learned a lot. I had a blast. And most importantly I remembered how important it is to not live life through the computer; but to use it as a tool to build as many great relationships as possible.

Here’s a quick shout out to everyone that attended:

Sandra Renshaw Brad Shorr Timothy Johnson Tammy Lenski Muhammad Saleem Lorelle VanFossen David Dalka - Mobile Search Marketing Todd And John Yedinak Joe Hauckes Tim Draayer Jeremy Geelan Sheila Scarborough Steve Farber Dawud Miracle Doug Mitchell Jeff O’Hara Dave Schoof Jamy Shiels Adam Steen Hannah Steen Chris Thilk Barry Zweibel Eric Bingen Ellen Moore Cord Silverstein Jean-Patrick Smith James Walton Sharan Tash Vernon Lun Tony Lee Scott Desgrosseilliers Mark Murrell Kammie Kobyleski Easton Ellsworth Mark Goodyear Ann Michael Kent Blumberg Ashley Cecil Robert Hruzek Sabu N G Lisa Gates Franke James Chris Brown Troy Worman Karen Putz Jesse Petersen Terry Mapes Andy Brudtkuhl Lucia Mancuso Peter Flaschner Derrick Sorles Mike Rohde Thomas Clifford Rajesh Srivastava Claire Celsi Jason Alba Cristiana Passinato Sean R. Alex Shalman Brad Spirrison Ari Garber Dr. Rob Wolcott Cheryll Cruz Sharon Scherer Jonathan Phillips Jason Wade Jill Pullen Doug Bulleit Wendy Kinney Chelsea Vincent Ayush Agarwal Paul Mangalik Premchand Kallan Xochi Kaplan Michael Snell Ella Wilson Adam Kayce Andy Sernovitz David Armano Drew McLellan Mike Wagner Rodney Rumford Robyn Tippins Diego Orjuela Wendy Piersall

Incidentally, the picture below is the best one I found of me — yes, that’s my backside (I’m talking to Tony Clark, standing next to Ann Michael.) There are a few pictures of me floating around, most with my eyes closed…but if anyone has a good picture I wouldn’t mind replacing the one I use on this blog for my headshot.

PS. I will put my podcasting presentation online shortly, in case anyone’s interested.

May 16th, 2007
  • Nice write-up, Ben. I think that was our second trip to the buffet (or maybe 3rd?).

    Great food, great people (yeah, I agree, maybe not yawning guy), and great info.

    Definitely one of the best conferences I've ever been to.
  • You are absolutely right Ben. NOTHING replaces face-to-face time. High tech is good; high touch is GREAT!
  • Face to face is hard to improve on.

    At the end of the day I don't worry about our technology skills failing, I worry about our people skills failing.

    It was great to meet you Ben and to learn from you...face to face.

    Keep creating,
    Mike
  • I'm just waiting to hear about that "most embarrassing moment," Ben. :)
  • It was great to be there and meet you Ben. I really loved your new startup idea for Standout Jobs and hope to keep encouraging you as you make that dream a reality!
  • Hi Ben - It was so great to meet you! And you're so right about being in person. What a difference it makes. Can't wait til next year!
  • Ben:
    I agree with you that it really needed more "free" time to network and connect. Next year!
    Chris
  • Looks and sounds like it was great! Maybe next year? ;)
  • Ben! Didn't my wife take the picture that you have on your site now? I promise I won't tell her if you change it. :-)

    I'm SO glad you helped us, and (better still) presented and participated. You bring so much to the table, my friend - it wouldn't have been the same without you. I also enjoyed our many discussions about business and life over those two days.

    So, pending fathter (do keep us posted), all the best and keep the faith!
  • I'll definitely be looking for that powerpoint. It was great to meet you and chat some at our table.
  • Hey Ben. And, again, Happy Birtday from Monday. Don't worry, I won't share any of the other personal stuff I learned about you at SOBCon.

    Meeting you, talking business and hanging out around an excellent Indian meal was a blast. Now I know who the Instigator is...except that Adam and I had to prod to you go to dinner.

    Thanks for some great talks and for sharing your knowledge of podcasting.

    And I'm with Phil..."High tech is good; high touch is GREAT!" HEY PHIL, CAN I USE THAT?
  • Hey Ben- Thanks for the compliment as well as the link/s! Had a great time as well, and I look forward to reading your blog!
  • Hey Ben, was really cool meeting you at SOBCon! Your podcast presentation was really well-done and informative, liked it a lot, looking foward to hearing more about standoutjobs man!

    hey why is it that on a lot of the pics you have a beer in your hand? lol (Heineken that is!)
  • Jonathan,

    Let's not get into too much of a discussion on the virtues of US beers...*chuckle*

    And well, I was away from home, perfect time to enjoy some Heineken, although I might have enjoyed them a bit more than most of the other people! *laugh*

    Glad you liked the presentation - now to get it online...
  • Ben, it was great to finally meet you in person! Funny how SOBCon is still going on, right here in the comment boxes of all the attendees, isn't it? Pretty great!
  • Oh, and don't worry 'bout the photos. Many of the ones that show me highlight my backside, too. Alas!
  • Ben, what a treat to be part of such a gathering.

    It was good to hear you talk about your vision for the new business! Love the energy you have for it.

    Keep creating,
    Mike
  • Sorry for not replying to some comments earlier from Mike and Chris in particular, they were caught in my spam filter for some reason...

    Dawud - one of your comments was caught too, very strange.

    Was a great time. I'm STILL thinking about it and processing it...
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