8 Steps to Growing Your Blog Community One Person At a Time

January 9, 2007

Most of us never have enough blog traffic. We want more, and more, and more site visitors.

But the real value in blogging comes from 1.

How can you get 1 more person to visit your blog, engage and build a relationship with you?

  1. Write to Get More Comments. Turning a visitor into a commenter is a key way of building a relationship with someone. Here are some blog writing tips to get more comments.
  2. Reply to Comments. Unless you get hundreds of comments per day there’s no reason you can’t do this. Even if it’s to say “thank you, come again!” People who comment are more interested in building meaningful relationships; in a way, through commenting, they already have.
  3. Visit Commenters’ Sites. Most people leave a link when they comment. Click on it. Visit their blog and see what’s there. You never know what you’ll find.
  4. Email People a Thank You. If you see real possibilities for extending the relationship between blog writer and reader, email the person a thank you. Ask questions and extend the discussion.
  5. Email People Links of Interest. Don’t be shy about emailing people a link of interest from your blog. Or, it might be from another site, with a small note, “You might also find my blog interesting at http://www.instigatorblog.com. I’m tackling topics such as…”
  6. Track The Most Popular Content. What are the most popular posts on your blog? And how did people get to them? Answer those two questions and you start to paint a picture of what people are looking for. Give them more of what they’re looking for and new and old readers alike will become more engaged. I’ve used Google Analytics for awhile and just started using 103bees (which has some interesting reports and metrics.)
  7. Make Content Accessible and Readable. Don’t over clutter your blog to the point of hiding content. A blog is nothing without content; it needs to stand out and shine through. You don’t need a blank sidebar or the ultra-cleanest Web 2.0 theme in the world; but de-clutter when you can, make headlines prominent, and keep content easily readable and inviting.
  8. Participate in Online Communities. The further you reach beyond your blog, the more potential you have to connect with people. It’s a pro-active versus passive approach to building your blog community. Comment on other people’s blogs. Join MyBlogLog.

Your blog community will grow 1 person at a time. Your network of meaningful relationships will grow as well.

The most powerful thing about the approach is that new community members will become evangelists for you. If each person you build a blog relationship with goes out and tells 5 other people about your blog, and they become engaged only to tell 5 more people…well, you get the picture.

Successful blogging isn’t about having the biggest audience, or constantly growing traffic by leaps and bounds. Those are great things, but they don’t get at the heart of successful blogging.

Successful blogging is all about the power of 1.

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  • Elizabeth
    Thank you! I am a new blogger (college project), and was looking for tips.
    You have certainly given me plenty!
    https://pub.mtholyoke.edu/journal/allonsy/
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  • robinrobinson
    Keep it fresh! There's nothing worse nor more boring than stale blog content! I stop looking at other people's blogs PDQ when they don't post regularly. If they aren't interested in their own site, why should I be?
  • tej
    hi I found it one of the fantastic articles in increasing traffic.my blog is http://www.softtips.blogspot.com usually i get trafiic 60-80 a day. i want to increase.pls do visit my blog and advise me abt the changes when tiime permits.
    being oa google product,i seek to develop an individual site and i apply ur tricks there ...thnk u
  • Hello Ben,

    Wow, came across this little area by doing a whole bunch of clicking. I seem to be behind the curve just a little bit. I just starting blogging, thought it would be fun. This was very helpful. I look forward to more info on this sort of thing. I guess I better get to reading. HA! I guess I better go rework my blogging. Any advice would be helpful. Take a look.
  • Great article! I've heard people give advice about commenting and tracking popular posts, but have never heard sending out thank you emails. I will try to implement that in the future. Thanks!
  • THis is really good info. I am new to blogging and am trying to genterate comments. I fell that I should build my hit's up first. Does it take time for the site to take off.
  • best of luck with your new blog!
  • I know this may be slightly off topic so please dont dismiss it as spam but my friend has just built a nice little forum where you can post and find link exchanges. The
    link exchange forum has only just started up but it has already caused quite a stir. Anyway check it out.. nice blog by the way :)
  • Tyler - I know a lot of people who have a great deal of success participating on forums and driving traffic to their blogs and building community. It's not something I've ever done frequently. Forums are frustrating because there's no push - you have to visit them, login, look around ... I much prefer blogs because I can access all those of interest to me through one RSS Reader. Even email newsletters have an advantage in that they're a push technology into my inbox.

    But I know a lot of people swear by the value of forums.
  • Nice post I like it :). Social networks are very good for building your blog community specially popular forums and community sites like digg, rededit, stumble upon and etc.

    I think honestly forums is a easier way of building social networks up on your site then what digg is, but then again that highly depends.
  • I find your tips for getting more traffic to be useful. It sounds like the same principal stores should use. When customers are finished purchasing goods the store clerks should make an effort to smile and say "Thanks, come again." That truly does make you feel welcome. Repeat business.

    I think you may find my Career Aspirations blog interesting. Check it out when you get a chance. http://ocha033-careerasp.blogspot.com/

    If interested would you like to do a link exchange?

    Thanks.
  • Mary - that's great! Welcome to blogging and I'm glad I've been able to help.
  • I'm one month old blogging, and I'm finding your advice is the way to go as I need to grow my community.
    Thanks
    Mary
  • Galba - glad you enjoyed the post. I just read the one you linked to - nicely done. I particularly like Emma's comments that ring so true ... but, but, but...

    Hope to see you around some more!
  • brassmonkey - best of luck with your new blog!
  • Very Good Info and sound advice, I just started a new blog and will do my best to follow your advice and be an active participant rather than a passive one.
  • Hi
    Those are very good advices!
    I enjoyed reading so much. Thanks!
  • Hello Ben:

    I enjoyed your post and you suggestions are good for bloggers that want their readership grow organically. I also wanted to thank you for an earlier post about blog carnivals as a promotional tool. It's worked well for me so far.

    Here's the link to my first blog carnival post: 5 Little Known Ways To Increase Your Emotional Intelligence.
    http://tuneupyoureq.com/2007/01/25/5-little-kno... Do let me know what you think :)
  • Mike -- thanks for the suggestion. I had heard of HitTail but haven't had a chance yet to implement it. What I've heard has been positive - so people definitely should check it out and let me know what they think:

    HitTail
  • Hi Ben. I also wanted to suggest taking a look at HitTail as a method of growing your blogging community. It's a writing suggestion tool for bloggers, which when acted upon, can help grow your natural search traffic (influx of first-time readers).
  • I like no.8. I never participate in any online community site before but MyBloLog is the best so far...
  • Hey Peter - good list of tips. Interesting that you rank forums so highly - they're not something I've actively used, although I know they can be effective. And you mention going after the press, which I'm sure very few bloggers do...which is a great tip but has to be one of the harder ways to generate traffic...

    Thanks for commenting, hope to see you around soon!
  • Ben, interesting! Just the day before you published this, I wrote Eight Tips to build Quality traffic. We cover some similar territory, both with an emphasis on building users one person at a time. Have a look http://www.theblogstudio.com/index.php/v5/blogC...
  • Flotsky - glad I could help. Sometimes we just need a reminder to get us going again. Happens to me all the time!
  • Very good points here, some of these I found for myself a years or two back, and they really do work. In fact I've fallen by the wayside on it, and this is a timely reminded to pick up these habits again.
  • Glad you liked it Robert...thanks for stopping by and commenting.
  • Great article. I've read through some of your other posts and look forward to many more.
  • Derrick - glad you found the post and site useful, and I appreciate the comment.
  • I was doing research for my blog and found you! Great info and great advice! I will share this with my readers and link to you! You have some great advice. The blogosphere is a wonderful place, and you now have a new reader!Thanks!
  • Bob - maybe I'll start doing things in 3s and we'll see what happens. Get ready for some lists of 3s!
  • 3 is just a good number, Ben - the most effective presentations I've heard use 3 main points. Seems it would translate into blogs, too. And to get a little whimsical - there's 3 strikes and 3 outs in game I love, 3 Stooges, Dorothy had 3 friends (not counting ToTo), 3 branches of government in our democracy - I could go on.
  • inspirationbit -- I'm glad you found my other post on how to get more comments. Hope it helps!
  • All these tips are very helpful, but I'd like some more tips on how to actually get/encourage people to comment to my posts. I'll be happy to respond to my comments if I get ones. (Note: I'm new to blogging - I know it takes time, but still... and I do read tons of articles on successful blogging)
  • Mallory and Bob - thanks for stopping by and commenting.

    ProBlogger is an awesome resource, no question about it. I was happy to see him link over.

    Bob - why 3 things? Is 3 the magic number for lists? I'm intrigued...
  • I'm with Mallory from seeing the post at problogger via mybloglog - I'm a sucker for lists - 7 thing, 8 things - best of all is 3 things :)
  • This is a great list. I found your site via ProBlogger...I'm always finding the best links and info through that site and your blog is no exception!
  • Thanks for the tips.
    I've recently launched http://www.bloggingit.info as a multinational adsense revenue sharing. I get about 100 visitors a day but i'd really like to grow the number of our writers.Here'e the idea behind the community:
    If you love blogging,you can signup in one of our communities ( if it doesn’t exist,just email us and we will create it ) and start writing about whatever you want in your own language as long it’s legal and not spam.In every post,we insert adsense ads.50% of the time the ads will have your ID,while in the rest of the time,the admin’s ID is used.The idea is to create a large community with writers who speak as many languages as possible.Imagine having 30 countries each with 10 writers.That's 300 writres.Now imagine each one is posting once a day.That's 300 posts a day.300 pages of content each day.That's 9000 pages of content each month.I'm not talking about black hat generated pages.These will be human created pages.belive me,the Serps will notice this community in no time !
    If anyone is interested,let me know.
  • anon4
    Funny.. i do ZERO of these things but still have a very popular blog.

    Bottom line: content is king. nothing else matters
  • Bravo Ben! As usual, your writing just makes me want to get up and DO something. Ok, write something....:) Great job!
  • Michael - I have to practice what I preach. Responding to comments in my mind is key. It really works to build relationships, communities and create a sense of openness and availability that can be critical to a blog's success.

    Thanks for stopping by!
  • Good to see you responding to the comments of others. So many people don't even try. Good to share.
  • hmm i dont participate much in communities.Thx i Ilwl start it soon
  • I am not sure if I should mention it here because I am already slightly too busy but..
    We are getting huge interest from bloggers and as a free service have got blogs from all around the globe.

    I am lucky, I get to read 40-50 blogs per day and can now tell the great from the good within ten seconds.

    Happy blogging

    KevinD
    fuelmyblog.com
    (Take a peak and add your blog free)
  • electronic -- I would never recommend spamming people your blog URLs. As well, I wouldn't recommend just sending the main URL. I'd recommend you send them a URL to a specific post --

    ***
    Hi Bob,

    I read your post about toy trains and really enjoyed it. I thought you might find this relevant and interesting...
    ***

    As well, the point was to send links from other blogs to friends, contacts, etc. Show that you're out there, looking around and finding interesting stuff.

    Thanks for the comment!
  • I don't know if I agree with your argument "Email People Links of Interest", it may seem as you are spamming them if they haven't requested before to be noticed about your blog.

    Of course I don't mean you shouldn't send your blog to your friends, but you should be careful about who you send it.
  • great list.. thanks!
  • You know you are right. Thanks for your posting. Btw, if you want to find some interesting sports articles, visit my blog.
  • thanks for the info.I realy need to look at this and change how I use the blog. Thanks.
    Norris
  • Bret - leaving "you suck" comments is a consummate waste of time for everyone involved. Constructive criticism is fine, and necessary most of the time to keep the discussion going.

    Heck, I wouldn't even mind, "I disagree" as a comment, because often people post things that are controversial in the hopes of getting comments that are negative (but not rude / pointless.)

    Infonote - forums is not a world I live in at this point. I used to muck around with them, but just haven't put enough effort in there. I do know they can be hugely effective for driving blog traffic, increasing reputation and networking.
  • I agree regarding participating in other sites especially forums.

    If you answer questiona they might start considering you an authority in your area/s of expertise.
  • Nice article and useful advice. I think I'd either add another item to the list or expand on the point about visiting the sites of those who comment: When leaving a comment, if you can't say something nice, say nothing at all.

    I don't agree with that cliche phrasing; however, the point is that if you disagree with something at any level, and are compelled to comment, at least be constructive in your objection. Don't just leave a "you suck" comment or anything similar. If you disagree with something, intelligently engage in the conversation and make your case. Well thought comments, even if they go against the original post, help push the dialog forward.
  • Patrick - it was a post by Darren Rowse at ProBlogger.net. He mentioned it and since most of these services are easy to try, I gave it a go.

    What struck me as interesting was the way they handle questions -- i.e. they try and figure out what questions people are asking in search engines that result in finding your blog - with the assumption that someone asking a question in a search engine is a much more eager reader. And it's a good way of saying, "Geez, people really want to know about X or Y."

    I've only been on it a few days, so we'll see what results come of it...which I will share.
  • What drew you to 103bees? I haven't used it yet and would like your opinion on why I should think about using it.

    Thanks.
  • I just wanted to thank everyone for their comments. I hope my ideas help put a frame of reference on growing your blog community. It's not just about the individual steps, but an approach that's important.

    I did want to comment specifically on Warren's thoughts:

    My overall blasé feeling towards blogs since the new year has made me feel that actually while those are good marketing tips for blogs, the key is to offer me something new and insightful.

    There are millions of blogs out there and 99.99% of them have the same thing to say. A unique voice with witty writing is for me the key to come back to a blog.


    Warren's not wrong. There's a lot of repetitive or uninspired content. I've written some of it. But there's also plenty of gems out there that you'll never find. Why? Because you HAVE to market a blog.

    Just writing amazing stuff isn't enough. I don't think it ever has been - from books, to movies, to blogs, to any form of media + entertainment. You might be the most brilliant guy on the block but if you don't know how to market...and more importantly, how to get out there into the communities that matter, you'll be brilliant all by yourself.

    Taking my suggestions with a blog that's boring, overly-focused on monetizing, poorly designed, etc. won't reap huge rewards. You need great content, unique ideas, fun twists on things AND you need to get yourself out there too.
  • Hehe good stuff ;)
  • Joost - I'm there now. Just reading your review of Text-Link-Ads.
  • Well, let's see how long it takes for you to visit my site ;)
  • Fantastic article! I especially liked the blog writing tips, I'll be back to visit again :)

    Bizimama
    http://www.bizimama.com
    http://www.lordsart.com
  • Thanks for the great article. I see that your suggestions have paid off for you. It is not always easy to get visitors to come back...

    ------------
    www.mostofmymac.com
  • Fine reminders, Ben. Thanks.

    The thing that stood out? One visitor at a time. It is all very well getting the big hit, but what you really want is the visitor that stays. One at a time - you are in it for the long haul, or not at all! Hey, do I smell a tagline?
  • Great Tips! You now have one new reader...
  • Two thumbs up for this article!!!
  • Great tips Ben!
  • Ben,

    As usual -- excellent points! Frankly, I think not responding when someone comments is just rude. It's like having someone in your house talking to you and you just walk into the other room.

    Even if it's a group "thanks everyone for the great comments" kind of reply, at least acknowledge their effort and time.

    I'm going to be thinking about all of these as I keep plugging away!

    Drew
  • I think #1 was #1 for me! My blog entries are too long, tend to take multidimensional views to the problem being discussed, almost like a balanced news article. I'd rather it be "Fair and Balanced"!! ;).

    I'm going to become more hard-hitting in my headlines and the posts are also going to be shorter.

    Ben, those were all great inputs. But #1 hit me in my solar plexus. Hell, I now know why even some of my friends have not responded with comments on my blog. With friends like those.....!!

    Srini Murty
  • Good article!

    My overall blasé feeling towards blogs since the new year has made me feel that actually while those are good marketing tips for blogs, the key is to offer me something new and insightful. Like regular media, I want to go somewhere and learn something new. I want a new perspective.

    There are millions of blogs out there and 99.99% of them have the same thing to say. A unique voice with witty writing is for me the key to come back to a blog.

    ww
  • Thanks for the list, I will referance it for future listings. I have also listed your blog in my favorites and will make sure and check it frequently. Thanks again, from St. George Island, Alaska. Good Luck.
  • I was planning to post something like this today on my own site. I just linked to your post, because it was very well done.

    Plus, now I look forward to your visit! ;o)
  • Step #9 - Spam Digg.com with your blog about how to grow your blog to increase your page hits and possible ad money.

    Wee!
  • Good tips. Thanks for sharing it with us.
  • I agree as well, especially with #7. There is nothing that bugs me more than a busy web site. Prime example: google vs. yahoo. Google lets you get right at the search. Yahoo makes you hunt for it.
  • Thank you for the list. I attend a toastmasaters club and started a blog site to help the club members with communication articles. I will try to popularise my site with your suggestions.

    Regards,
    Santosh
    http://artofspeaking.org.
  • Thanks a lot. I'm going to work on responding to comments.
  • AJ
    This is a good article!! I will have to take these into consideration for my new blog. :)
  • Thanks for the Ideas :)
  • Thanks for the tips! I feel that number 8 is very important to building your blog's community.
  • Thanks a lot i will take these into consideration =D
  • Leo
    Hi, thanks for the ideas, I will put them in practice.

    Regards from Argentina!
  • I'm glad you've all appreciated my thoughts. Thanks for the positive feedback and comments!

    Lyndon - not replying to comments is a huge mistake. Part of successful blogging could be being controversial. It doesn't hurt. But being controversial without responding to comments isn't that effective - controversy works best in conversation.
  • Good list, it's true. The most wasted opportunity bloggers indulge in is not replying to comments. People make the effort to type in a point or a question or even an opposing point and then mostly it goes ignored.
  • Thanks Ben--your tips are really helpful. After blogging for about 7 months now, I'm learning that it's very much an art and a science. Whereas it's easy to set a blog up and get into the habit of posting regularly, the real strength behind a blog is the community that participates in the online conversation. Cultivating the community takes a bit of finesse. Thanks for sharing your advice!
  • Hi!
    That was quite inspiring! I haven't been paying much attention to my blog as I don't get many comments or visitors... Maybe I'll start it again!
    Nice to meet you, and I'm already waiting for Basil!!!
    Cheers from Brazil!
    Laura
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