Entrepreneurs Should Never Say “Whatever.”

One of the most damaging words an entrepreneur can use is “whatever.”

It’s one of the 7 words that entrepreneurs should never say.

The only context where the word “whatever” works is when speaking to someone you trust, and you say, “Do whatever you think makes sense.”

But otherwise it smacks of indecision, laziness and worse…apathy.

Answering a question with “whatever” is tantamount to saying, “I don’t really care.”

And entrepreneurs should always care about what’s going on with their business.

It’s better to say, “I’m not sure,” or “What do you think?” when a question is asked that you don’t readily have an answer for. And if it’s not a #1 priority for you, delegate. Don’t use “whatever” as an excuse; the issue-at-hand might be extremely important to the person you’re speaking with, and “whatever” can come across as extremely uncaring and demeaning.

Part of being an entrepreneur is handling issues you’re not familiar with and doing things you don’t enjoy. In either case “whatever” is an escape route — but each time you escape responsibility you’re chipping away at your chances for success.

Don’t say whatever. Prompt discussion, dialogue, debate. Ask questions. Delegate. But don’t give up, stop caring or escape responsibility.

What words would you never use as an entrepreneur or small business owner? What words hold a negative context for your success?


The Elephant In The Room is YOU

* You’re the person companies aren’t talking about enough.

* You’re the person companies are scared of, but really shouldn’t be.

* You’re the elephant in the room.

While I think the brouhaha over Snakes on a Plane borders on the absurd it should be a huge eye opener for businesses. It showed us that a company really was listening to its customers, making them more than customers. When there was talk of the movie name being changed, the customer said “no.” And the movie studio listened.

As the customer started spreading information and gossip online about the movie, the studio watched, listened and encouraged it.

A lot of businesses don’t know how to deal with you. They might try shoving information down your throats, they might try begging…others don’t try anything and hope for the best. And now, as you go out there and talk openly about what you like and don’t like, businesses are in an even trickier position; they don’t know to respond.

Some businesses are embracing you, encouraging you to provide feedback, insight and spread the gospel. They’re learning how to “gain control” by letting go of traditional control.

It might be as straightforward as starting a blog for your business. Doing so is not difficult. Yes, it requires some thought and planning, but any size business can do it, with minimal or almost no technical skill. How about a residential cleaning business in Florida? Yup, they’re blogging and it’s making a big difference.

Customers don’t want to be elephants anymore. And more and more they’re taking their business to companies that understand that; companies that help them get out of their elephant disguises.

Related posts:

* Companies That Act Like 2-Year Olds Need to Grow Up


The #1 Pro and #1 Con of Watching the Competition

Is watching the competition a good idea?

You tell me.

There are some clear pros and cons to watching the competition.

First, let me say this: obsessing over your competition is bad. It can’t help you or your business.

If you want to obsess over something, obsess over your customers.

So what’s the #1 pro of watching the competition? Information.

Keeping an eye on the competition helps us gather information. Why do we need this information? It’s not about “doing exactly what they’re doing” but I’d rather know what’s going on than not. Where does competitive information help?

  • In sales. I’ve often been asked (while doing sales), “What makes you different from the competition?” Giving a wishy washy answer here doesn’t help. Giving concrete examples does.
  • Strategy. Competitors help gauge the overall market and where things are heading. You don’t want to be a follower, you want to be a leader, but there are always lots of players in the market.
  • Learning. Rhonda Abrams at Citizen-Times.com makes a list of 10 steps every entrepreneur should take when starting a new venture. #2 is “Objectively check out the competition. Most entrepreneurs fail to see what competitors are good at. Learn from them.”

Robert May at Businesspundit comments on a recent article in Businessweek about competitive advantage. The article says that anything you try will be overtaken by someone else. So you’re screwed. But then it goes on to give some advice on how to gain a competitive advantage, re-promoting the ideas it cuts up.

Looking at the competition isn’t enough to give you a competitive advantage — that has to come from more than just what others are doing. But it can’t hurt to know what’s going on.

So what’s the #1 con to watching the competition? Losing your identity.

If all you focus on is the competition and what they’re doing, you’re going to lose your identity. You can’t answer questions like, “What do you believe in?” with the answer, “Not what those guys believe in!”

Bill Baren recently wrote There is NO Competition. I’m going to quote something cause it’s important:

We have no competitors. It’s not about measuring our self or our business against anyone else. It is about continuing to refine what’s unique about what we do. It’s about zeroing in on your essential zone of genius.

I love the premise here and the conviction of Bill’s words. I’m not sure how we can be unique if we don’t compare ourselves to some degree against others, since being unique implies there’s something you’re unique in comparison to.

What I think is absolutely beautiful about what Bill wrote is the last sentence: It’s about zeroing in on your essential zone of genius. I wish I had written that. Mostly, I love the idea of a “zone of genius.” How cool is that?

Kathy Sierra at Creating Passionate Users recently wrote Ignore the competition. The main thrust of her argument is that software companies obsess over the competition in a “features arms race”. They have X. We have X. They build Y. We build Y.

Ultimately, that’s losing your identity.

It’s a mistake not to watch the competition. It’s also a mistake to focus too much on the competition. Not watching them at all is too egotistical. It smacks of righteous elitism; and eventually those competitors are going to come knocking. And knocking hard.

But if you’re spending more time watching the competition than doing what you do best, you’re wasting time and becoming nothing great.

Be great by taking a leadership role, innovating, and sticking to your beliefs. Just keep an eye on everyone else. Robert May wrote, “…the mantra of today’s corporations should be experiment, execute, and evolve…” Right on.

Please read:

* Stop Looking Behind You from chartreuse

* Do Commodity Products Exist from David Chao


About Ben Yoskovitz
I recently joined GoInstant as VP Product. GoInstant changes how we use the web, making it shareable like never before.

I'm also a Founding Partner at Year One Labs, an early stage accelerator in Montreal. Previously I founded Standout Jobs (and sold it). I'm a hands-on startup guy, helping companies grow successfully from the idea forward. You can reach me at byosko at gmail dot com.

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